Friday, 31 January 2020

The Last Paani Poori


About The Story

We all Meet strangers in life, in buses, trains, flights, cabs or auto rickshaw on share, for a little time or so but we do develop a contact by just sharing some hour of our life with them on that very moment.
Though in this modern era people prefer to mind their own business but there was a time out of these social media world when people really use to care for each other's comfort-ability rather than their own, on the first priority.
My aim for this story is to how some of those little sweet moments does matters and create a permanent impact on your mind for ages.
Hey Reader this is J Srikanth Presenting you my fourth blog, 
A story of a 27 Year Old Unemployed Bachelor Boy and 6 Year old Toddler Girl, So keeping the story as short as the strangers you met in life till date whom you still remember.
Hope i'll make you visualize with my story.

Chapter 1 

The First Rain of the Year


It was the Month June, A Boy named Sidharth age 27 standing at the corner of the other side of the barricades of a deep dark lake just 2 steps away the starting point of the lake, the rain was about to start and storms already took place.


All the stall keepers and vendors including people roaming around ran away because of the storm and the area became dead silent just the sound of the storms wear all over but this guy remain standing tall throwing his red tie and black leather office bag on the other side of the barricade and 2 top knots wear unbuttoned in his white formal shirts.
He was about to jump into that lake when suddenly someone from the back thrown a wafer to his back side of head, he turned back and saw a toddler, wearing a orange color dirty lehenga chunni having number of little mirror cubes on the lehenga, holding 2 steal carry bags and started putting those on floor.
"Only i have the right to jump from here and take a bath in this lake, she is my maternal mother" she said
"Go home, its going to be heavy rain kid" Sidharth replied
"No i wont, no one ever took a bath in this lake except me, this mother lake is my mother not your's so you go home" she replied
"Don't make me come there, already i am in bad mood and i was going to jump inside this lake and never come back" he replied
"why will you never come back, my parents scolds me if i did not return till evening and you are saying you will never return only" she replied
"Yes enough of this, if someone comes here asking about me after several days has passed tell them you saw me jumping into this lake tell them i attempted suicide" he replied
"what is suicide, is it a type of Paani Poori...Is it as spicy as Paani Poori" she asked putting her small arms onto her abdominal sides making a gesture.
Sidharth Smiled and asked " Paani Poori is your favorite dish or what"
" Yes mister, its my favorite favorite world favorite dish... i love paani poori more than my sister loves it, if she loves 7 out of 10 then i love 9 out of 10 twice ahead of her always" she replied
 "whats there in your bags? Sidharth Asked
"Its Paani Poori, my daddy makes it everyday and every evening tells me to take the remaining paani poori home, now look what you did, because of you i have to waste 8 pooris to just warn you not to take bath in that lake" she replied
" But you only thrown a single poori how come its eight, you lair" Sidharth said smilingly 
" I was trying my best to make these pooris reach to your head but you have great height so i failed till 7th attempt and finally the 8th one touched your head, hahahahahahahahaha"  she replied 
"Can i have those paani pooris? Sidharth asked as he changed his mind of suicide and was enjoying the moment with the storm on the background.
"Yes, but i will not give more than 2 paani pooris, you will eat 2 and i will eat 5" she replied tilting her sweet face
"Hahahahahahaha Yes no problem, by the way what is your name?" He asked and started pressing her soft nose from his two fingers
"Ahh!! Puchki is my name" she replied
"Its a bengoli word for paani poori, wow your parents love you so much that they gave you this name... interesting hahahahahahah" He replied
"So are we become friends now right" she asked
" How come? he asked
"Yes my mother told me if anyone asks your name and presses your nose at the same time they are friends not enemies" she replied
"Yes obviously we are friends" Sidharth Replied
"Can i call you my teddy bear" she asked 
"Listen my name is Sidharth, and you can call me big brother or just brother, i am no teddy bear... Bears are fat, do i look fat to you" He replied with a constant smile on his face
"But why!!! i have many friends but i don't have any teddy bears, i saw my friends playing with their teddy bears but my daddy didn't bought me any teddy bears... please you become my teddy bear so that i can tell my friends that i too got a teddy bear" she replied
"Stop talking while eating, first eat then i will decide" He replied 

They sat on a public seat near the barricade As they wear eating the first drop of rain fall from the sky on Puchki's head as she started seeing the sky and the second rain drop too fell but this time on her forehead.


Chapter 2

The Rains of Monsoon


The weather was of clear monsoon and was raining all day all night.


 Failure in and Failure out, Sidharth was struggling everyday. The unemployment pain was making him weak day after day and he was giving up hopes day by day.
Roaming from morning to evening with the pain in his eyes and tiredness in his face, facing rejection from every company.
One day he was passing by the streets near the lake, as he saw Puchki was washing plates in a Paani Poori Stall. 
"Hey Puchki" He said loudly
As she turned her face her mouth wide opened and she dropped all the plates on floor and ran to him and hugged him, as she was short she only hold him till his knees.
"why are you washing plates? he asked
"This is my daddy's stall and he promised me if i wash all the plates daily then he will give me as much paani poori as i want to eat" she replied
Sidharth then checked his wallet, he was only having 20 rupees for the day and ordered a plate of Paani Poori, then he made her sat on his laps and offered her the plate to eat.
"Hey Scoundrel!! plates are still unwashed, you want unlimited paani poori or just that plate" Her father yelled at her
She firstly stared Sidharth's face and then keeping her heads down, moved down to ground from his laps and went to wash plates.
Sidharth didn't uttered a word as he himself got no jobs but her father at least owns a shop, he then kept the plate on that chair and went away seeing her washing the plates.
But as they say, no one knows when and for whom fate turns overnight, just the next day Sidharth got placed in a company with a very high package as he got so experienced after so many losses, he just ran to that very shop where Puchki works and thought to buy her unlimited Paani Poori this time as a celebration treat.
As he reached he saw she was packing bags and was going somewhere with her father, the shop was closed too.
He stopped them and asked where they up to?
"Hi teddy bear.. going to my uncle's home" she replied
" You know we can eat unlimited paani poori today. i got new job" he replied
"Job!! what is job? is it a Jalebi" she asked
"You go to school right, it is just a school" he replied
"ohh... so in which standard you are in? she asked
"I am in standard 27" he replied
"My god schools have these many classes, i didn't knew" she replied

"Listen brother we are getting late now" her father said
"ok ok sorry.. you may leave" sidharth replied
"Bye" she yelled shaking her hands
"Now i will eat all paani pooris until you come" sidharth said by mocking her
"Nooo you cant do this.. good teddy bears always share their food with friends" she yelled as her father was taking her away holding her little fingers.

And here
Sidharth Decided not to eat paani poori until she returns back.


Chapter 3

The Last Rain of the Year


Days have passed, He kept waiting and missing her and then after many days of waiting finally he gives up and he goes very busy on his daily schedule.

Strangers in life are like this, you always meet them and then they go one day and you get busy with you life and once in a year or decade when you are sitting alone somewhere then your mind just clicks on that very small segment of your life and suddenly all you remember is that stranger.
Sidharth Got so busy with corporate life style that he totally forgot Puchki even exist...

I can end this story here with this sweet moments and with the final quote of this very story given above.
But lets end this in more dramatic way.

One day Sidharth and his new girlfriend wear roaming near the passage of that very lake and they reached that same spot where the shop of paani poori was installed. 
He saw the shop keeper was selling paani pooris and he leaned inside, he saw the shop keeper was her very dad.
He was so happy to see him and asked about Puchki, as the man saw him and replied "if you want paani poori then tell or else mind your own business"

He tilted his face and saw there was some other girl was washing plates but her age was same as Puchki and her face too resembles mostly to Puchki.
His father went for washroom and that girl who was washing plates, approached Sidharth and said "2 months earlier after returning from my uncle's home Puchki was as usual washing the plates and took her steal bag with her and was going home crossing the passage near the lake and i don't know what happened only god knows after that she went missing, mom told me that she fell down to lake as she slips towards the ground because of constant rains making the floor slippery, her little feet didn't gripped well on that slippery floor and people said they heard no noise of screaming as there was loud noises of storm, moreover no newspaper spotlighted this news as there wear no evidence of it" the girl replied as her eyes were numb.

THE END


   



Monday, 9 December 2019

Love Paradise

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Wassup Guys, This is J Srikanth!!
Back with my 3rd Blog.
First of all thank you for giving your time for going through this blog as the title itself makes a curiosity to look forward about this.
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About The Topic

In this world,around 40% of the couples suffers from the evil side of the love and 30% end up in a broken relationships,20% in Compromising situations and about 5% in an accidental ending up.;lastly 5% in a Successful Relationship.
In this blog i am gonna tell you what really happens in that major 40% of the love side which turns out to be evil
By the Way my motive is to aware you about some relationships which turns out to be very dark and gritty, and yes it's not a Bollywood Romantic Story.
I am not Going more than 3 chapters so you can easily go through the journey and also keeping every chapter short and griping.

Chapter 1

Pink Pink!! Wink Wink!!

A Guy named Madhav Singh Rathod, Being a final year student in Mechanical Department and the most attractive Guy among the whole batch, and also the second topper of the class among 60.
Youth does say that there's only boys in mechanical department and mostly girls prefer CS IT Department but Luckily that mechanical batch holds the strength of 21 Girls too.

Radhika belonging to a Brahman middle class family knowing all the brahminical values was the topper of the batch. she has light brown skin color which perfectly suits to her attributes but wasn't interested in those attractive boys instead she believes that these boys knows only the modern material studies and not the scriptures and spiritualism, so mostly being the attractive of the class due to her thoughts and upbringing,her all attention was among those few boys who admire the local Indian cultures.
Madhav despite being the topper of the class was a little egoistic but innocent mostly he was like those people who knows nothing but still pretend to show that they know everything moreover he has the art of convincing others and patting others and use them in right time for some personal agenda.

One day during a lecture Radhika asked Madhav "Hey!! Can i get your notebook for this weekend"
Yep, but i want it on Monday anyhow, no excuse. Madhav replied as she took the notebook on Monday she returned it back.
That night while he was studying, his attention goes to that same notebook which he gave to Radhika  and he saw that there was a 6 letter word but was badly blurred with pen as if no one must understand.
Instantly he called Radhika and in a sarcastic way said "thank you miss, to keep my notebook so clean" Radhika replied "sorry i was thinking of someone and did'nt saw when did i wrote something at the back of your notebook" 
"Whom were you thinking of in so depth that you never knew you wrote something" Madhav asked
"No one No one, never mind!! and sorry once more" she replied.

Madhav doesn't have any Objective Compulsive Disorder that he has to call Radhika for a single scratch in his notebook, his main intention was to find out what were those 6 letters.

On that same weekend, This time Madhav asked Radhika for a notebook and this time he intentionally wrote 6 letter word and on Monday he returned it back and was waiting that Radhika would call that night to ask. 
But there was no call, he waited till midnight but were no calls still.He took it on his ego then he made a call to Radhika and asked whether she was sleeping, she replied " 'No' but was just lying in bed"
"You got a good hand writing Madhav Said.. Ahh Haa Thank you, but i guess you're not just calling for this at midnight.
"No No i was just... i just wanted to tell you that i too marked something at the back of your notebook" Madhav replied 
Uhhhh!! is it but why...? she asked
Madhav was feeling a little shy and said "i was too thinking of someone and wrote" and after replying he was expecting that she would ask who were you thinking about but she said "ok i am feeling sleepy goodnight see you tomorrow" and hung up the call.

This triggered Madhav's Ego a lot and he decided not to see her face anymore and he actually did that from next day... Radhika too ignored him 
But after 2 weeks Radhika approached Madhav and asked whether he was free that evening and Madhav seeing somewhere else acting to ignore her said "yes" politely and the Radhika requested him to come around Cafe Coffee Day that evening as she wanted to discuss something.
There was a sudden increase of heart beat for Madhav, he replied "ok will be there" then they went away on their respective classes.



Inside CCD

Genuinely Madhav did'nt like coffee much he was a tea lover but for Radhika he was having it and moreover when the cup arrived Radhika handed the cup from the waiter and kept near madhav's palm, their little fingers touched, he instantly shivered and moved his finger. 
But his finger was still tingling where she touched.

They both started a conversation which Radhika converted into a laughing gossips and Madhav did liked it and after that they moved out.
Suddenly wheather changed and it was heavily raining, they both ran into a shed and while the chilly winds was all over the zone, she asked "That day you were telling that you wrote those letter by thinking of someone so...who do you love" 
Madhav looked around the environment and was thinking its like the best moment then he replied in a low voice "it is you whom i was thinking Radhika" 
She looked at him with a big eyes for a few seconds and replied "you know i too think about you and wrote your name on your notebook"
"Really" he replied "Yes" she replied 
There was complete silence as the rains slowed down and then they both were shy a little and then Madhav holds her hand and dropped her home safely in a Cab.
While he was turning around after seeing off to his own flat
Radhika holded his hand, Madhav turned his face and she said "I Love You Madhav" a sudden heart beat of both, then he replied "I loved you too" she replied "okkk...see you around".

How cute it was right.. lets move forward.

Chapter 2

LOVE is EVOL, spell it backward i'll show you


You have to marry me as soon as possible!! Radhika yelled
Ssshh its liberary please dont create a scene here..Yeah i will,but give me some time i want to settle down things first..Madhav replied, "No no you can do it after marriage but my family is very conservative and final exams are almost over,after that my parents are expecting me to get married and you want me to wait just because you have to settle things first,that means i was never in your priority,your love was all fake.. Radhika replied.
Hey where did that come from.. Madhav replied softly.. "I don't want to talk to you anymore i am leaving" she replied and walked out by stamping her feet making noise throughout the library hall as Madhav keeping his heads down and thinking "This is what happening since last 6 months every damn alternate days, why am i even in this situation"

Madhav as usual was playing an online game when suddenly phone rings that was of Radhika.
"Its almost 2 days,You haven't even Care for calling once right" Radhika said in a louder voice.. "Its not like that baby" He replied "Shut up" she yelled and hung up the call.
110 Missed calls where made that day but no reply from Radhika on the other side.

A message comes around midnight Madhav quickly grabs his phone and saw it. It was written "I am sorry" he texted back "its fine,you love me that what's matters" she texted back with an "Awwww!! thank you for being there"
"So what are you doing" she texted

"Was just playing online game" he replied
She called at that very moment, he picked up "You didn't even said sorry to me i was waiting but i am convinced now,you have changed,there was a time when even in every silly mistakes you use to say sorry now what happened" Radhika yelled

"Oh Come on! now you want to argue for this tiny mistake, its a big life lets just focus on some bigger issues" Madhav replied
"Ohh hooo! Sorry Mr.Philanthropist, Now you feel irritated by my talks, where have those days gone
why don't you kill me for making me fall in love with you" She said with a mumbling voice
"Please don't cry i am sorry baby... please if you love me then stop crying" he replied softly
"ok, i am sorry please forgive me i just don't want to lose you that's why sometime i take things too seriously" she replied
"i am sorry too for being rude" he replied back
"Hey listen!! you can take your time for settling down your things, i will wait for you" she replied
"Now that's so nice of you, thank you baby, for understanding me" Madhav said in joy
"Lets sleep now, its already late" Madhav requested
"Now you don't wanna talk to me till late night, now you feel sleepy when i make a conversation.. This is so cool right first make me cry then pat me then you play emotional games and finally telling lets sleep, i think there is someone else in your life am i right" Radhika asked
"Hey come on, genuinely i was feeling sleepy,i thought that everything is fine now" Madhav replied
"You are trying to ignore the question what i just asked, Is there someone in your life other than me" Radhika said loudly
" No, there is no one and my upbringing are not like that so don't even think in that way" He replied
"Time will decide who will stand for whom till last breath" She replied
"Now can we sleep" He asked
Instantly she hung up the phone



Again missed call were made on that night but this time its 148 times..

Chapter 3

Sinister's Daughter


Cell Phone Rings
"Hello" Madhav Greeted
"Am i speaking to Madhav Singh Rathod" a lady from the other side
"Yes.. whose this?" Madhav asked
"Hello Son, this is Shanta here Radhika's Mother"
"Good morning!! Aunty yes"
" I would like to warn you don't ever try to contact with my daughter again, i found her taking sleeping pills. She is admitted to a nearby hospital, i found a suicide note and your name was mention in her reason to kill herself" She said loudly
"What?? i didn't even knew, why she did that... Everything was alright" Madhav replied in a freaking manner.
"I don't know you just stay away from her, my husband was about to file a police complain about you...But somehow i convinced him, so if you want to live peaceful ahead just don't ever contact her anymore" she replied loudly
Madhav was totally scared and hung up the call.

That afternoon a text arrived in Madhav's Cell Phone
"If you don't marry me or even try to flew away, i will commit suicide and i will write your name in it"
Madhav texted back because he freaked out to even call her and talk
"Are you mad!! why are you even doing this wasting your life and mine too"
"See baby... I Love You sooo much.. i don't want to lose you and i can't live without you, i will not accept any groom other than you... Now if my parents finds another groom its your responsibility to fight for.. You love me nahh baby!!" she texted back
"Please don't talk like this, its making me depressed" Madhav texted back
"See i knew it.. You love someone else, i am now leaving this hospital and running far away where no one will find me" Radhika replied
"See your texts are pressurizing me, i am already a sensitive person.. I think i should kill myself" Madhav Replied
"You love me so much baby!!! Ok am not going anywhere but don't do that i love you so much" she texted back



Madhav didn't replied and went to bed.. Depressed people mostly sleeps when they are depressed.

After A Few days..
Radhika went to Madhav's flat and said she was a his classmate in Graduation to her maid, the maid took her to his bedroom and went back to work.
Radhika acted like everything was fine and started a serious conversation about their relationships, but Madhav was completely sad and was not even looking to her face, she became suicidal then ran to the corner of the room near a table and opened a compass box holding that compass she started threatening Madhav that she would slit her wrist right in front of him.
Madhav started crying then she got melted and came near him suddenly he pulled away the compass from her palm and grasp her tightly locked her in his bathroom.
Immediately he called a friend, when his friend arrived, Madhav opened the door and found her blacked out.
Then they booked a cab and took her home.

That's not the end of it.
Next morning Madhav woke up he found his cell phone inside his bathroom and found out there was 49 text messages and 189 Miss Calls from Radhika.
He never replied back neither came out from his flat till a month.

One day Radhika's friend Arrived to Madhav's flat.
He welcomed her and asked her what was the condition.
They started talking and after a while her friend requested for a cup of tea and said "you know here at the second narrow lane of your street, there is a tea stall, i heard that he makes best tea in this are.. Can you please bring me tea from that stall?
"Yeah sure just wait i'll be back" Madhav Replied
When he went there.. He ordered a 2 cups of tea and suddenly 2 guys grabbed his back and pushed him and started beating with a mild steel rod.
Madhav was unconscious and after 30 minutes he opened his eyes and found himself in his flat with a Threat note on his pocket.

He didn't moved out from his flat for a week and one fine morning he woke up and found out his motorcycle was burnt.
That same day was his job interview but he missed it out of fear.
Few day has passed.
Waking in his bedroom in dark, just the street lights was falling inside from his window making the room a little brownish as he went near his window he saw Radhika was standing near his apartment with a dark guy wearing a black hoodie and holding a knife.
He quickly closed his doors and windows..
A text came as he checked it was an unknown number "Don't worry i was just checking around"

After Three Months

The result were out Madhav was graduated from first division in his mechanical department
and after that he immediately departed from the city and changed his cell phone, sim card, email id, deleted all the social media accounts.
Then after he worked as an employee in a mechanical department company.

Epilogue 

After Three Years
Madhav's bride was about to get fixed and the couple were dating in a restaurant.
After a beautiful conversation they both were happy and accepted to get marry.
Madhav dropped his bride to her home and went to his own home was chatting with his bride that same night. 
Madhav mother came around and gave him a letter and said someone just dropped it outside the house..
Madhav opened it and it was written
"She is not beautiful as me and you should reject her"


Thank you very much for your valuable time to go through this story.





   

Sunday, 1 April 2018

Intelligent People Suffer More while Unintelligent People Live a Happy Life

Intelligent people suffer more,while unintelligent people live happy Life

Hello Everyone this is my second blog.
As you already red the topic name 'intelligent people suffer more,while unintelligent people live a happy life' i am not going to mock someone because this is actually a formula for life and not for mocking. 
So its actually a fact and can be applied in life.
Here what i know about this topic is since last one week i have been applying this formula into my life and you all will not believe it at least 80% of my work is been completed.
Hope you all will get the maximum benefit from this topic.  


THE TRUTH












Generally most of the people prefer being the smart and intelligent being and and no one on this planet prefer to be dumb, but here whats the truth is.
The Dumb people does not know that they are dumb and live like a free bird and while on the other hand a smart being always spent their day trying to be smart and always checks and inquire whether such and such things are good to be there or portray or not.

Here what another truth is.
Most of the people those are dumb are more happy in this life than those among the intelligent people because those unintelligent one are happy through what they get while the intelligent being always are hyperactive to conquer more and more for which leads them to live a frustrated unhappy life than those among the unintelligent one.

The intelligent person think twice or thrice to take certain steps in life, mean while the dumb one completes the task till the smart one still thinks.
Almost 70% of the people think smartly and does not even take steps fearful of the risk onto the path, while 20% of the people think smartly and win the race while some of them tastes failure, but the dumber one thinks and just does the work without considering the consequences and those people either fail or lead a top class life.
At the time of failure those 20% intelligent people regret and spent the rest of their life regretting things for which they endeavored and  some of them becomes neutral and stays there through the rest of their life being fearful of further risk.
while the dumber one either celebrate their failure and without thinking takes next step or either stays there living happy to tell the tragedy to their loved ones.

THOUGHT PROCESS


There was small town on which many sensitive and intelligent people lived and one dumb person.

One night lights went out and after a while a news came that one thief switched off the main lever from the electric house just to rob at midnight.

The head of the village member asked the sensitive people please go and switch on the lever.
The sensitive people thought "why me, i have my family, if someone killed me so what will happen to my family"

Then the Head of the village grabbed the intelligent one.
"They started thinking that through which street it will be short-cut and can be no harm" and took time to only think and while on the thinking process they over thought everything and backed off due to fearfulness while mostly 4 to 5 people agreed to do the task.

Suddenly lights came and everywhere was bright inside the town, the head of the town including everyone was standing in a bunch and saw that the dumb guy was coming from the path which was leading to the electric house.
The head of the village asked "you knew the solution"
he replied "no, but as i knew the path so i went there and there was a board in which it was written LEVER so i just switched it on that's it.

The head asked "what about the thief?"

The guy replied " If that much  i thought about the thief and become fearful then how can i complete the task"

Conclusion

Since the last 2 months i don't know what little things was there making me frustrated every single second due to which my works were pending every single day.
Then one day i sat down silently in a dark room and thought very deeply that i was not suffering from any physical pain then what is the thing that is making me not do the things that are important to do everyday for my life.

The pain was on the mental level so i came to the conclusion by a solution that "Over Thinking and Fearful of future was making me more dull and frustrated day in and day out, and the only solution i got was to let go all thoughts and just focus on the work because at the end of your lifespan people will only recognize you by your work and not by your thoughts and if thoughts are good so will be your work" that's the best solution i was having.

Secondly, there is a Universal Law that "One should always think positive" and how one should being able to think positive?
The answer is one has to by force feed the mind positiveness because this mind is a source of bundle of thoughts most of which are attracted towards the negativity because of the surrounding.

So what i did is i welcomed all the unnecessary  thoughts and i just ignored and did my work without any fear for the consequences and here i am completed my 80% of the work by the weekend.

So Think Once and Act accordingly, Don't bother for the result and don't be fearful of the future Either we can win or we can fail, the worst is to think and do nothing.

THANK YOU.

Friday, 16 March 2018

THE MIND


Hello friends My name is J Srikanth and this is my first blog on the topic of "The Mind" as you go further on this topic you'll notice how the mind manipulates and plays tricks,just to make you lack in everything and every goals which you have decided to achieve in your life.
The Mind is such a creation of the nature that if you utilize it in good way the mind is a very best friend of yours and if you ignore or let the mind be free it will become your greatest enemy.
In this topic i will give you the way to make your mind your best companion because mind cant be controlled,because it is the energy of nature just as we cannot control the natural disaster like earthquake or hurricane, the mind is also the creation of nature which cannot be controlled but can be made good companion or the worst enemy.

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GAMES OF THE MIND

Have you ever been scared of your school or collage academic result or suppose when your boss tells you that you have to submit such and such report before evening or else you will be suspended or now a days it is common that a girl and a boy have intimacy and later onward the girl gets pregnant and imagine what situation and condition shall the boy and that girl will face further. 
Likewise there are many such cases in each individuals life.




1. Desire
2. Fame
3. Respect 
4. Wealth

These are the Weapons of mind.
 And Dumping you to the following conclusion

1. Anxiety
2. Depression
3. Stress
4. Panic Attack
5. Negativity
6. Fear
7. Tension

which can further cause to sleepless nights and hypertension days.

MECHANISM 

1. The moment you desire for something say it is for earning lots of money,you have to work hard day and night and don't think after getting successes or becoming wealthy you will be free. 'No' after successes you have to work more harder just to maintain the status,which leads you to anxiety because suppose you are working hard day and night and at last if you fail then it will be a miserable.

2. "The civilization sell their respect just to come under the boundary of name and fame". every individual has forgotten the culture and became lusty just to acquire names. A simple peaceful life will be not accepted by any civilian these days, they want fame,wealth,luxurious life. Hence these all are the attractions of the illusory world of ours people try to compare everything and become another identity by selling their time and money just to be in limelight. These are tricks of mind which baffles you and dashes you to depression and stress.

3.  Giving Respect to other is good but Expecting respect from other is the worst and most people lack in these small things. This is the major cause of conflicts and revenge. These disorder like respect,lust,greed all are the weapons of mind and one who lives on these platform are all suffering from anger. which further leads to ungraceful of one's being.

4. Where ever there is wealth, there is Ego. This Ego is such a disorder that leads you to loneliness.You'll see that the wealthiest person have a high standard of living and have to maintain their status and even in some cases the family member of such individual does not interact due to the egoism of such wealthy person. He/She just have interaction between the colleges And which leads to Loneliness further leading to uncontrolled mind and uncontrolled mind leads to suicide.

THE CONCLUSION


  

There is one Best Method and that is Detachment.
Detachment not from this world but from the daily activities and from the things which you target to achieve in your life and the works you do on a daily basis.

Just Know this thing that what you will acquire and earn in your whole life is not for yourself but for the sake of your loved one's.
You study because your father wants.
You Acquire a job not for yourself but for your family.
You earn money for your wife,children,and family.
You follow your passion not for yourself but is the decision of your mind which make you believe that is your passion and this will give you a satisfaction.

All the activities which you are been doing since your childhood will be gone after your death so whats the big deal about your money,your savings,your family,your passion, which are nothing but the illusion of mind which makes you bother and care for such things.

The Daily things which you do or the The things which you are planning to do in future all are to be done as a responsibility and not as an obsession with it.

You see even a boy who hope for getting A+ in all subjects will become nervous on the day of result not because he is sure he will get it but because he has done hard work and  have hope of getting it, but after concluding that he has didn't got any A+ in any subject makes him frustrated.
While on the other hand A boy who does not hope for getting any A+ but is happy if he is just passed, he will live a peaceful life and he will not even get frustrated if he has failed in any subject because he just did as a duty and not as an obsession.

So all are the tricks and plays of mind.
So be detached and live your dreams or do the daily work as a duty and not as an obsession to get something because at the end of the day it will be just YOU.

THANK YOU